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fox and moon weddings

Planning & coordination for alternative couples.

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Intro:

HI! Are you looking for someone to be your hype person in your wedding planning process?

I'm Holly, an alternative and inclusive wedding planner and coordinator to the weird, wonderful & nerdy.

Making your day run smoothly is my ultimate goal, and taking the pressure from you to fully enjoy your day as you have planned.

Your needs as a couple are at the heart of everything I do because I believe that your wedding should be a reflection of you as a couple.

Happy planning!

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A bride and groom sharing a kiss through the window of a vintage orange Volkswagen van, decorated with white ribbon, on a city street with brick buildings in the background.
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Decorative altar with a spider-themed sculpture draped in jewelry, surrounded by black balloons and a floral arrangement, with a black and white event poster in the background.
Decorated cookie with white and black vertical stripes, inscribed with the phrase 'Never Just the Living', next to a glass and a dark invitation card with ghost illustrations.
A woman with a floral crown and dark dress holding a bouquet of roses, accompanied by a man with red hair, glasses, and tattoos, in a setting with crosses and religious decor.
A couple dressed in dark, elegant attire stand on a grand staircase inside a historic church or cathedral. The woman wears a black, lace dress with a crown of branches and flowers in her hair, holding a bouquet of flowers. The man wears a dark outfit with a boutonniere, smiling at her. The architecture features detailed stone arches, stained glass windows, and carved wooden elements.

Venues

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Attire

Two women in wedding dresses play a mock sword fight with a necklace, while a woman in a red dress watches and laughs at the outdoor wedding venue.

Cakes

Entertainment

Celebrant

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Favours

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Florals

Hair & Makeup

Food & Drink

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A woman with teal wavy hair, dark makeup, and a black floral crown, holding a bouquet of flowers, standing against a rustic wooden background.

Photography

Jewellery

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Elegant place setting with black plate, red velvet napkin, and a decorative embroidered heart with an anatomical heart design. Gold ornate charger under the plate, surrounded by crystal glassware and event menus featuring a heart illustration, the names Katy & Joseph, and the date October 26, 2024.

Stationery

Sylists

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Travel

Transport