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The Lost Village of Dode

Where history,

magic and love unite

Kent

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Intro:

Step into the enchantment of The Lost Village of Dode – a thousand-year-old, candlelit Norman church hidden in the Kent countryside.

Forgotten by time and surrounded by ancient landscape, Dode offers an intimate, otherworldly setting for those craving something truly different.

Whether you're planning a handfasting, elopement, or non-traditional celebration, our historic site welcomes love in all its forms.

With wild meadows, sacred stones, and a deep connection to nature and spirit, Dode is a sanctuary for the unconventional. Here, the past and present entwine – and your story becomes part of the legend.

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Favours

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