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I help create alternative weddings giving couples choice.

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Name: Jodie
Pronouns: She/Her
Based: East Anglia
Covers: The UK
Summary: I’m for the wierdos, the neurospiceys, the gays and the theys, that are looking for something different for their wedding day. I create weddings built around your personalities and passions, connecting you with inclusive suppliers and helping you focus on what truly matters so your day reflects you without compromise.

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A woman and a man stand close together on a gothic-style staircase inside a historic church with stained glass windows. The woman wears a black dress with floral details and a headpiece, holding a bouquet. The man is dressed in black, smiling at her.

Venues

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Attire

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Cakes

Entertainment

Celebrant

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Favours

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Florals

Hair & Makeup

Food & Drink

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Photography

Jewellery

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Stationery

Sylists

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